Love to Care

From Competition to Contribution

Welcome to this very beautiful and special Mistress Class “Love to Care”.

Although care is a natural human quality,  many of us have learnt that we have to be tough. We’ve learnt that sharing and expressing that we care is needy. We feel that we are too emotional, that we want too much. We are afraid to really express our love because we're afraid that we will be rejected. That our love will not be mirrored. 

The truth is we all love when somebody truly cares about us and when we feel appreciated and not taken for granted. We love when someone tells us how beautiful we are and how grateful they are that we exist in their life. We love when they show their love and their care through words and actions. 

In the vedic tradition life is an offering. It is meant for growth. Life is meant to express the love that we are. We can do this through contributing to each other and through reaching out-actions.  

Most of us have been born into a competitive society where it's normal to compete. It’s a society that is constantly striving and wanting to be the best… but why? 

We do this so we can feel lovable, so that we can feel worthy and deserving. We feel that by consistently achieving we will be accepted. That is not true. Love is what we are and caring is the natural expression of love. 

It does not help to continue living with a competitive attitude… as it is does not help our spiritual and emotional growth. It will actually keep us stagnant, small and isolated. We may end up feeling lonely and wonder how it happened. We may ask ourselves “why does nobody love me?” You may have all the wealth, all the power … but you will not have who to share it with.

In this very beautiful, unique and special Mistress Class you will learn the jewel of becoming a contributor. We will look into how to shift  from a competitor to a contributor. A vedic society is a duty-oriented society. It's our duty to contribute &  to share what we have been given… as much as we can, whenever we can. 

Just like the Sun. The Sun never wakes up in the morning to say “ You have to pay me to light up your life”.  The Sun gives and gives and gives and gives.  The water does not charge,  the air doesn't want anything from us. It gives. If we look at the universe, the elements, the animals, all beings are contributing… except human beings.  We are consuming, exploiting, taking advantage of,  taking things for granted…  and that does not lead to a lasting happiness and peaceful life.  It actually leads to sorrow.  

This Mistress Class is to help us really truly wake up and see the value of being a contributor. So that we can express the love that we are unapologetically. You give the best. You can contribute to express the love that you are, so that you can grow, so that you can grow emotionally as a human being and eventually spiritually.  Spiritually means to discover “I am the whole universe” which leads to freedom from all pain. The first step in our spiritual growth as a human being is to become a contributor. 

This mistress class will show you how to take actions to really shift your attitude and to overcome the obstacles that may be hindering you from stepping into the life of a contributor and making a difference… not waiting for change to happen…  but being the change. 

With this I leave you and am with you in heart. I would love to hear from you about how it was for you to participate in this offering? What did you take home with you?  How are you going to implement Love To Care in your own life?  

I’m sharing with you these lotus flower petals from my garden. 

Lots of love from Bali.